Ne-Yo recently addressed criticism of his polyamorous lifestyle during an appearance on the Gold Dimes podcast, offering candid insights into his personal journey and the lessons he’s learned since his divorce. Reflecting on his split, the Grammy-winning artist admitted it forced him to confront truths about himself that he had only partially acknowledged before.
“I got divorced not too long ago, and it taught me a lot,” Ne-Yo said around the 33-minute mark of the interview. “It made me realize things about myself I kind of already knew but hadn’t fully accepted.”
He emphasized the importance of self-awareness and honesty in relationships, encouraging people to embrace who they truly are. “If you know you’re not the kind of person who can commit to one woman, don’t be with one woman. It’s that simple.”
When asked about criticism, Ne-Yo remained unfazed. He dismissed attempts to shame him for his choices, pointing out that such judgments only hold power if he allows them to. “You can’t shame me unless I care, and I don’t give a fuck,” he said unapologetically. “This life is mine, and I’m going to live it the way I want to. I don’t owe anyone an explanation.”
The interview follows viral comments from Dr. Cheyenne Bryant, who publicly criticized Ne-Yo’s polyamory. In a recent clip, Bryant labeled him a “womanizer,” accusing him of using polyamory as an excuse for infidelity. “He cheated on his wife over and over,” she said. “Now he’s gaslighting himself and others to make it seem like he’s been polyamorous all along. He wanted to be married but didn’t have the discipline for it, and his wife left because she wouldn’t tolerate it.”
Bryant also suggested Ne-Yo’s dating life reflects unresolved guilt from his failed marriage, stating, “The women he’s with now are paying for the heartbreak he caused.” Ne-Yo, however, has been transparent about his outlook, reiterating that his choice is rooted in authenticity, not evasion. On Lemon Drop with Karleen Roy, he explained his stance further, rejecting societal expectations.
“Society says you’re supposed to be with one person forever,” he said. “I’m not knocking marriage or anyone who’s made it work. But monogamy isn’t for me. Everything isn’t for everybody.”
Ne-Yo’s openness has sparked both criticism and conversation, but his message is clear: he’s living life on his terms, unbothered by the opinions of others.
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